Betty Lillo

Hey Mom, its been awhile! Miss you like crazy but love ya even more. Will see ya soon! Hugs & kisses xoxoxoxoxox

Hey MOM,
Well its been awhile since I have gotten on here.I remembered today is your 10 month anniversary & just wanted to tell you how much I love and miss you. You and Daddy are on my mind all the time. I just sit and wonder what you all are doing different times of the day.I KNOW you and DADDY are happy and I don’t bother you as often as I use to because of that reason. So be happy and know I love and miss you more than you will ever know. Forever and always your daughter.

Hi Mom!!! Sitting here thinking of you today as I often do. Remembered you on Nov. 2nd. It is so hard to believe it has been 8 months already! Today is Lizzie’s 9th birthday. She is growing up so fast.Roger and Barb came and stayed here with us for 3 days. Sure was glad to see them. I had a little piece of you with me for awhile.And when they left it was so hard. With all the sickness and getting older its hard to say when the last time could be the last time. They headed back to Michelle’s day before yesterday. Chatted with Gina for awhile this a.m. She was headed to her counseling appt. Give Daddy a big kiss for me. Love and Miss you always! Kath

Hey Mom,
Seven months today! Time sure does fly don’t it! Sure do miss you and Dad alot. I’m just so very thankful neither of you are hurting anymore. I’m sure you all are happier than you’ve ever been and I’m glad for that. Miss you alot but I’m doing better. Love you more and more every day and miss ya alot!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Hi Mommy,I didn’t forget that yesterday was the 6th month of your passing, I just had so much going on that I didn’t get a chance to get on the computer.It seems like yesterday I was making you something to eat or doing something around the house.There was never a dull moment was there Mom???? We sure had alot of laughs and alot of “secret conversations.” Those were some of the best days of my life spending them with you. And I would do it over and over again.We had alot of fun and I will cherish that for the rest of my life.I’m just so glad you went to your rest knowing “everything” that was going on around you and there was absolutly no secrets about ANYTHING. I love you MOM forever and always YOUR DAUGHTER KATH!!

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOMMY,
Just sitting here thinking about you and missing you so much. Its hard to believe you would have been 67 years old today. You never ever looked a day over 30 to me. You were and always will be the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Talked to Rog & Barb today and they said to tell ya Happy Birthday and they love and miss ya alot.If you were with me now I would take you shopping but I am certain your Angel Wings are the most beautiful ever.Enjoy your birthday dinner with God and eat anything and everything you precious heart ever desired.I love you more than words could ever say.xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Happy Birthday Nanny,
We love and miss you sooooo much. We are going to miss going to yours and Papaw’s house for vacation. We wish we could have seen you more than we did.But you and Papaw know we loved you guys alot. Well Nanny we gotta go. We love you!xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Love, Liz and J.D.

HI MOMMY, JUST SITTING HERE THINKING, TOMMOROW WILL BE ANOTHER MONTH THAT YOU LEFT ME.IT JUST DON’T SEEM REAL!!! I MISS YOU SO BADLY THAT AT TIMES I JUST CAN’T SEEM TO FUNCTION. SOME DAYS SEEM A LITTLE EASIER BUT OTHERS ARE ALMOST UNBEARABLE.I DON’T KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO IF IT WASN’T FOR MY BABIES AND JR.LIZ AND JD MAKE MY DAYS AS YOU KNOW. THEY ARE GETTING SO BIG! THEY START SCHOOL ON THE 24THJUST 2 DAYS BEFORE YOUR BIRTHDAY. WELL GUESS I’LL GET OFF AND GO VISIT DADDY FOR A MINUTE. TALK TO YA LATER. LOVE AND MISS YOU BUNCHES!!!!!!!!!

HI MOMMY, ITS BEEN 4 MONTHS TODAY THAT YOU LEFT ME AND IT STILL HURTS SO BAD. I THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. I HOPE YOU ARE HAPPIER THAN YOU HAVE EVER BEEN, WHICH I’M SURE YOU ARE. LOVE AND MISS YOU LOTS AND JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW. TILL NEXT TIME, LOVE YA!!!!!

HI MOM! SITTING HERE THINKING ABOUT YOU SO HERE I AM. MISS YOU AND DADDY SO MUCH I CAN HARDLY STAND IT.ITS BEEN SO HOT HERE LATELY WE CAN BARELY STAND IT. HEARD ITS BEEN PRETTY WARM UP THAT WAY TOO. SURE HOPE WE GET SOME RAIN SOON. WE HAVEN’T HAD RAIN SINCE DADDY’S BIRTHDAY. WELL JUST WANTED TO LET YA KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YA. HAVE A GOOD NIGHT!!!!

HI MOM, JUST SITTING HERE THINKING OF YOU AS ALWAYS. MISS YOU SO BADLY. LIFE ISN’T WHAT IT USE TO BE BUT I MANAGE TO GET OUT OF BED EVERY DAY. I SIT OUT BACK EVERY MORNING AND DRINK MY COFFEE AND THINK OF YOU AND DADDY. I KNOW YOU ALL ARE BETTER, I JUST WONDER WHAT YOU ALL MAY BE DOING AT THAT PARTICULAR TIME, YOU KNOW. JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU. TALK TO YA LATER!!!!

HI MOMMY, ANOTHER MONTH TODAY THAT YOU WENT AWAY AND IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY. I MISS YOU SO MUCH MOM. IT STILL DON’T SEEM REAL. AT LEAST YOU ARE NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE. I’M HAPPY THAT YOU ARE WITH DADDY GIVE HIM A BIG KISS FOR ME. HE HAS HELPED ME SO MUCH ITS UNBELIEVEABLE. BUT DAD HAS NEVER LET ME DOWN. EVERY TIME I HAVE EVER ASK FOR HIS HELP HE HAS BEEN THERE FOR ME.I SURE DID MISS YOU BOTH ON MY BIRTHDAY.WELL GUESS I WILL GO FOR NOW. TALK TO YA BOTH LATER.LOVE YOU BOTH WITH ALL MY HEART.

HI MOMMY, JUST WROTE A POEM TO DADDY I SAW IN THE PAPER YESTERDAY AND IT WAS EXACTLY HOW I FACE MY DAYS EVERYDAY SINCE YOU AND DAD LEFT. SO I AM WRITING IT TO YOU TOO.THE MOMENT THAT YOU DIED, MY HEART SPLIT IN TWO, ONE SIDE FILLED WITH MEMORIES THE OTHER DIED WITH YOU.I OFTEN LAY AWAKE AT NIGHT WHEN THE WORLD IS FAST ASLEEP AND TAKE A WALK DOWN MEMORY LANE WITH TEARS UPON MY CHEEKS.REMEMBERING YOU IS EASY I DO IT EVERY DAY BUT MISSING YOU IS A HEARTACHE THAT NEVER GOES AWAY.I HOLD YOU TIGHTLY BUT IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. EVERY DAY MOM IT SEEMS TO BE A LITTLE HARDER TO FACE THE DAYS. AND BEING SO FAR AWAY IT MAKES IT EVEN HARDER. I KNOW WHERE I’D BE SPENDING MY DAYS. I AM BEING SELFISH AND I KNOW ITS NOT RIGHT. YOU AND DAD WERE THE BIGGEST PART OF MY LIFE.PEOPLE SAY IT GETS EASIER BUT IT REALLY DON’T. I AM SO PROUD THAT YOU ARE AND ALWAYS WILL BE MY MOM. LOVE YOU LOTS!!!!

HI MOMMY,JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU A HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY.I HAVE DREADED THIS DAY FOR AWHILE AND I’LL BE SO GLAD WHEN IT IS OVER. I NO LONGER HAVE A MOM OR DAD AND THESE DAYS MAKE IT EVEN HARDER. I WOULD ALWAYS SEND YOU FLOWERS AND CALL TO SEE IF YOU HAD GOTTEN THEM AND IF YA LIKED THEM.OF COURSE YOU ALWAYS DID!!!! WELL MOM, ITS GETTING LATE SO I’LL TALK TO YA LATER. HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY AND GIVE DADDY A BIG HUG AND KISS FOR ME.LOVE YA LOTS AND LOTS!!!!!!!!!

Mom…it has been 2 long months now since you passed…I miss you more than anything..I think of you OFTEN!!! Wish you were here with me right now! I am just thankful that you are home with JESUS..what a wonderful time you must be having there…Until we meet again…save me a place next to YOU ?
I love you Mom!!!
Give Dad & Adam a big hug & kiss for me!!!!

HI MOMMY,JUST SITTING HERE LOOKING AT YOUR PICTURE AND WONDERING WHAT YOU AND DAD MIGHT BE UP TOO.I MADE YOUR FAVORITE FOR SUPPER TODAY AND COULD NOT BRING MYSELF TO EAT IT.I MISS YOU AND DADDY SO VERY MUCH.THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME ANYMORE.IN A COUPLE DAYS IT’LL BE 2 TERRIBLY LONESOME MONTHS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GONE AND NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DON’T THINK OF YOU AND PRAY FOR YOU AND DADDY.I’M JUST GRATEFUL GOD HEALED YOU IN HIS WAY.NO MORE SICKNESS,MACHINES, DYALISIS OR ANY OF THAT STUFF.NOW ITS JUST YOU AND DADDY WITH ALL THE FAMILY MEMBERS THAT WENT BEFORE YOU ALL.I JUST HOPE AND PRAY YOU BOTH ARE AT PEACE CAUSE I KNOW YOU BOTH ARE WATCHING. LOVE AND KISSES AND I MISS YOU MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY.TIL NEXT TIME, GOODNIGHT!

Dear Betty,
I love and miss you so much. Brenda is hurting in a way I can’t even imagine. The two of you were so very close. I remember how you would call her every morning and every evening. You would go for long rides in the country together sometimes even ending up in Michigan. Brenda has shared many wonderful memories of you with me.
I can’t speak for anyone else, but I personally feel extreme guilt for having realized TOO LATE, what you were going through. Had we only known we could have done something; then maybe you would still be here with those of us who loved you most.

HI MOMMY, JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU A HAPPY ANIVERSARY. YOU AND DAD WOULD OF HAD 51 YEARS TOGETHER TODAY. I KNOW THE PARTY YOU ARE HAVING UP THERE IS BETTER THAN ANY PARTY WE COULD HAVE GIVEN YOU BOTH DOWN HERE. I LOVE AND MISS YOU MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY. BE HAPPY AND KNOW YOU ARE IN MY HEART NOW AND ALWAYS.LOVE YOU!!!!!!!

HI MOMMY, JUST SITTING HERE THINKING OF YOU. I REALLY MISS YOU ALOT. THE HOLE IN MY HEART SEEMS TO BE GETTING BIGGER INSTEAD OF SMALLER. THE MEMORIES COME UP BUT ITS NOT THE SAME. I KNOW YOU WERE ON LOAN FROM GOD BUT THAT DOESN’T MAKE IT HURT ANY LESS. I MISS YOU MOM SO VERY MUCH. THERE ARE DAYS WHEN IT IS SO HARD TO GET UP AND OUT OF BED. BUT KNOWING YOU ARE WITH DAD AND NOT SICK ANYMORE MAKES THINGS A LITTLE BETTER. JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW I MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH.

HI MOMMY, MISSED YA FOR EASTER YESTERDAY. THOUGHT ABOUT YA ALL DAY. ALL THE FAMILY WAS HERE FOR THE BAR-B-QUE AND LIZ AND JD MADE A BUNNY CAKE(WITH OUT COCONUT)HA HA HA. THEY HAD JELLY BEANS ALL OVER THE PLACE. I’M SURE YOU AND DAD HAD A WONDERFUL EASTER TOO.WELL, UNTIL NEXT TIME, LOVE YOU VERY MUCH.

HI MOMMY, JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW HOW VERY MUCH YOU ARE MISSED. I LOOK AT YOUR PICTURES AND WONDER WHAT YOU ARE DOING NOW. ITS BEEN SO LONG SINCE YOU WEREN’T SICK I BET YOU ARE HAVING THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE WITH DAD. ESPECIALLY WITH NO KIDS AROUND HA!HA! I KNOW WE ALL MEANT THE WORLD TO YOU. BUT YA HAVE TO ADMIT YOU AND DAD NEVER HAD MUCH ALONE TIME WITH US 5 KIDS. BUT I KNOW I SURE DID AND ALWAYS WILL LOVE YOU AND RESPECT YOU NOW AND FOREVER.

It’s been a month since you’ve been gone & NOT a day goes by that I don’t think of you!!! It was horrible watching you pass away the way you did..you died the way you always feared the most…drowning in your own fluid :((
Wish I could have helped you!!!
Love You So Much Mom!!!
Your baby girl..Gina

HEY MOM, JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW I MISS YA MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY. SOMETIMES IT JUST DON’T SEEM REAL TO ME THAT YOU ARE GONE. GUESS I JUST HAVE TO FACE THE FACT THAT YOU ARE. I WILL CONTINUE TO MISS YA FOREVER BUT JUST SO YOU KNOW I AM VERY HAPPY FOR YOU. YOU ARE WITH DAD AND NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE. I LOVE YOU NOW AND FOR ALWAYS. YOUR DAUGHTER, KATHY

HI MOMMY, THOUGHT ABOUT YOU ALL DAY TODAY. SURE DO MISS TALKING TO YA ON THE PHONE. WAS LOOKING AT THE PICTURES I TOOK JUST BEFORE YOU LEFT. YOU WENT SO FAST ITS HARD TO BELIEVE YOU AREN’T HERE ANYMORE. I KNOW YOU MISSED DADDY ALOT.AND IT MAKES ME HAPPY TO KNOW YOU ARE WITH HIM AGAIN. JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW I THOUGHT OF YOU TODAY ALL DAY.GOOD NIGHT!!!!!!!

HEY MOM, JUST SITTING HERE THINKING OF YOU AND DADDY.MISS YOU BOTH ALOT ALOT ALOT!!!!! REALLY HAPPY YOU ALL ARE NOT SUFFERING ANYMORE. I GUESS RIGHT NOW I AM BEING A LITTLE SELFISH. CAUSE I WISH YOU ALL WERE HERE WITH ME.IT’S JUST THAT I MISS TALKING TO YOU ALL AND DADDY I MISS THE WAY YOU LOVED TO EAT. YOU’D SAY “DON’T GIVE ME TO MUCH” AND NEXT THING I NEW YOU’D ASK FOR MORE IF YOU REALLY LIKED IT ALOT. I LOVED TO COOK FOR YOU ESPECIALLY IF IT WAS SOMETHING YOU REALLY LIKED. I GUESS THAT WAS OUR TOGETHER TIME AND I REALLY DO MISS IT.I LOVE YOU BOTH! GOOD NIGHT!

Lillo Family, We are so sorry for your loss. May the Lord bless you in your time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Hello Mom,
I found myself trying to call you today to see how you were doing? It is hard for me to really believe you are gone ?
I wish you were here…there’s so much I want to tell you!! I miss you more than you will ever know! I love you so much more!!
your daugther,
Gina

MY LOVING MOM IF ONLY YOU KNEW THE PAIN I FEEL.BUT KNOWING YOU ARE IN HEAVEN WITH DAD MAKES ALL THAT DISAPPEAR. IT DID’T TAKE LONG FOR YOU ALL TO BE TOGETHER AGAIN. AND FOR THAT I WILL ALWAYS BE GREATFUL TO GOD ALMIGHTY.I AM SO HONORED TO BE THE ONE WHO TOOK CARE OF YOU YOUR FINAL DAYS. IF ONLY I COULD HAVE TAKEN THE PAIN & SUFFERING YOU ENDURED I WOULD HAVE GLADLY DONE SO. YOU AND DADDY WERE MY WORLD AND NOW I HAVE NOTHING.BUT GOD HAS GIVEN ME MY FAMILY & FRIENDS HERE & NOW THAT I KNOW YOU ALL ARE SAFE I NO LONGER HAVE TO WORRY. LOVE & MISS YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW. YOUR DAUGHTER, KATH

Dearest Betty, I will always be remember you to be very quiet and precious. As many have said, your smile went a long way. I remember how you would look at big Joe and listen to every word he said. So attentive so loving, I find myself doing the same thing to your eldest son Joe Jr. I thank you for raising such a wonderful man I call my husband.
As for him and your other children I know you will be missed by ALL! The way they ALL helped to take care of you was a message of love like no other. Rest in peace Betty. I know you are at His feet and praising His holy name!!!!

To the Lillo family… i am sorry to hear about Betty. She really was a sweet sweet woman. i am sure she is greatly missed by all who knew her. i know her and Joe are together again. my deepest sympathy to each of you.

to kat,bea,jr,randy&gina.aunt betty is sadly missed but she is in a much better place,back with joe & jesus.im so sorry u couldnt make it kat but it was a beautiful funeral.they did a really good job.i love all of u & just remember we will all meet again when its our time.take care & god bless all of u.love mo.

Brenda and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss and hold those memories close to your heart. May God be with you and know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Betty,
I miss you more than anyone could ever know. You are the kindest and sweetest person I have ever known. You had a heart of gold. The one thing I will remember most, is your smile. You were so small in stature but had such a huge presence. You have a wonderful daughter in Brenda, and I know where she got her big,beautiful heart.
I love you and miss you dearly…

To the Lillo family~~I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom~~I would have liked to attended service today, but unfortunately I was unable to~~What a wonderful person you have lost~~ May you all find peace and strength to continue on with all that you have been through these last few months~~ I couldn’t even imagine~~ My deepest sympathy to all~~ Polly and Boys

Randy,Brenda,Gina,and family: You are in our thoughts and prayers. May your special memories help you through this difficult time. Mariann Teagarden and Lisa Faulhaber

Randy and Teri,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. She is at peace now and reunited with your dad. Please let us know if you need anything. We are here for you!

I Love you sweetheart! God Bless Kat, Joe jr. Brenda, Randy & Gina. What all of you have had to endure the last 6 months losing both parents. I love each and everyone of you and pray that God is wrapping you in his arms for comfort. I love you and the angels are rejoicing at recieving Aunt Betty. God Bless your cousin Mary Combs

Gina & Family, I am so sorry for the loss of your Mother. May memories and love serve you well in the coming months.

Hello Lillo family,
Sorry to hear about your mother! How hard it must be losing both parents so close together. May you be at peace knowing she is in a better place, resting with her soul mate.
I know words can’t say enough, but I would like you to know I am thinking of you.
God Bless, my prayers are with you.
Love Donna Roof (Endicott)

Dear Kathy, Brenda, Joe, Gina&Randy,
Dave and I wanted to convey our deepest sympathy for the loss of your Mom. I remember her being a very sweet and kind lady. You all are in our thoughts and prayers…Kim&Dave

Dear Nanny,
Im so sorry for not being around in the past few years. I love u so very much n i always had u n my heart n u always will be. You are the greatest grandmother anyone could ever have. Now you are home with papaw n u no longer are n pain. I love u both so very much n i think about u all the time. Love always your favorite grandaughter jessica. To all the family my deepest sympathy I love u all very much.

Randy I am so sorry to hear of your lost. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Just keep in mind she is finally at peace and no more suffering. I know it hurts and words can not describe how you must feel but god will give you the strength you need to get through the worst pain in your life. Love You both Terry and Randy Take care Brian Roberts and Rhonda Bolen (Endicott)

BETTY LILLO FAMILY,
TO THE WHOLE FAMILY YOUR MOM WAS A GREAT LADY AND WE WERE GLAD TO NOW HER. SHE WILL SADLY BE MISSED. YOU ARE ALL IN ARE PRAYERS AND GOD BE WITH YOU.
LOVE AND PRAYERS
SUSANN AND KENNY HARRIS

To the entire Lillo family…So sorry to hear the passing of your Mother and Grandmother…Just know your in our thoughts and prayers…Connie Eldridge and Frank Gearheart

hi mom-i love you and thank you for being a wonderful mom. you finally made it to heaven to be with dad again. I know you missed him so very much and now you will never be apart from him again. It makes me happy to know that you will never be sick again & will forever have your health. i will miss you teribly but rest in knowing that you are with jesus and so many other loved ones that went ahead of you. i love you always & forever. your daughter,brenda

Brenda,Kathy, Gina and the entire Lillo family, i am so sorry of Betty’s passing. she was such a special lady. i will miss her smile. i still have a doll on my fridge she gave me ten years ago for a christmas gift, for delivering her mail.she is not suffering anymore and is with her love ones in heaven. my sister-in-law angie i know is welcoming her with open arms. god bless u all, my heart goes out to u. my thoughts and prayers are with u.

TO;GINA&DAN,& ANDREW,LIL JOE & ALL URE SISTERS & BROTHERS&THE GRAND & GREAT GRAND-CHILDEN,NEICES,NEPHEWS,COUSINS;I WANT TO SAY HOW BEATIFULL URE MOM WAS NOT JUST IN LOOKS’ BUT, AT HEART MOSTLY”IM SO VERY SAD FOR URE HEARTS ARE BREAKING NOW’ BUT THE ONE THING & MAIN THING IS SHE’S WITH GOD NOW. NO MORE PAIN OR SORROW MUST SHE SUFFER.I LOVE U ALL DEARLY ”URE ALL IN MY THOUGHTS & PRAYERS DAILY AS U ALWAYS HAVE BEEN”& ALWAYS WILL BE.”MAY THE LORD BE WITH YA ALL & GUIDE & DIRECT YA ALL THAT YA DO & SAY& WHEREVER YOU MAY TRAVEL’ ”MAY JESUS LIFT URE PAIN & SADINESS OF THE LOSS OF URE MOM.JUST KNOW YOU EACH HAVE URE SPECIAL MEMORIES OF HER & URE DAD NOW & ALWAYS .MEMORIES ARE TRESURES NO ONE CAN TAKE AWAY FROM US’MAY GOD BLESS EACH & EVERYONE OF YOU .” NOW & FOEVER TILL YOU SEE THEM AGAIN ONE SWEET DAY.SOME OF U MAY NOT KNOW ME THE WAY GINA, DAN ANDREW & LIL JOE DO. BUT JUST KNOW I LOVE YA ALL SO VERY MUCH.LORDS WILL I BE AT URE MOMS SHOWING & FUNERAL AS I PROMISED MY SWEET ,KIND, DEAR FREIND & SISTER IN THE LORD GINA”MAY GOD BLESS U ALL NOW & ALWAYS .IM SO VERY SORRY FOR URE LOSS.WITH ALL MY LOVE & PRAYERS & THOUGHTS OF U ALL ALWAYS ,URE FREIND & SISTER IN THE LORD LINDA ;

Mom,
what can I say..I am at a loss for words…I miss you so much!! You were the “Best” Mom in the whole wide world!! My heart is heavy but I know that you are in a much better place…no more pain..no more suffering!! You are finally free…Home at last with Jesus & Dad :))
I can’t wait to see you again….save me a place next to you!!!
I Love You!!!
your baby girl…Gina