For the record, Mary Ann has not spoke to my father and Step Mother in over 25years. No calls no visits or anything. As for me, I have only spoke to her once or twice in the last 20 years. The last time,I told her Dad had been ill and her coment was that she hoped the sob would just die. So to say she is hurt and would of been there is a joke. Even when our mother died she came to the funeral home sat in the car and told me when I was ready to devide things up to call me. I think this was a pretty good reason for us not to call her. Her only brother Richard Zeiter